Boundaries are the Real Foreplay to the Love You Actually Want
You’ll discover:
The hidden reason boundaries feel scary to set and hard to hold and how to finally feel safe and steady in your “yes” and “no”.
The biggest mistake women make that will ruin intimacy, safety and connection and how truth becomes the foreplay that builds desire.
How to rewrite your love story by ending the martyr pattern so you stop abandoning yourself and start creating the kind of love that actually lasts.
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Without boundaries your relationships hurt…
You dry up.
You check out.
You think it’s connection, but it’s actually obligation.
You say “yes” when you mean “no”.
You swallow your truth to be more “lovable.”
You carry the emotional weight in every relationship.
And you’re exhausted. Wondering when it will end.
This must stop, babe.
I know you don’t want to build walls.
You don’t want to become “hard.”
You want to be met.
Seen.
Chosen. For who you are.
Your boundaries are the key to the love you actually want.
Not surface love.
Not people-pleasing love.
Not pretending-you’re-fine love.
Real, grounded, intimate love - built on self-respect and truth.
But first, you have to unravel the lies you were taught to believe.
The ones that spin round and round:
“If I speak my truth, he’ll pull away.”
“It’s easier if I just stay quiet.”
“If she’s upset, it’s all my fault.”
And it’s not your fault. You didn’t come up with these beliefs.
They were handed to you - through culture, family, and every time you were rewarded for being a good girl.
None of these lies are true.
And you can change them.
Boundaries aren’t about keeping people out.
They’re about teaching people how to love you.
Just imagine…
You wake up feeling rested because you’re no longer carrying the emotional weight of every relationship.
You stop taking on everyone’s emotions as your responsibility so that you can be present and playful with your kids.
You change the people pleasing patterns so that you can actually relax and have fun with your friends.
You stop reenacting your parents’ dynamics on autopilot so that your daughter grows up knowing love thrives on being real.
You embrace conflict instead of fearing it, so that the hard conversations become gateways to deeper connection.
“It is an honor and delight to give Juliana the energy of money in exchange for her wisdom.
This was the best investment in myself that I've ever made.
Juliana's guidance has been life changing.”
Sarah Parr
Hello love, I’m Juliana
For years, relationships left me anxious, drained, and feeling misunderstood.
Like many women, I people pleased my way through life. And repeating generational patterns of secret keeping, swallowing feelings and simmering in resentment.
I felt desperately alone… until I tried to take my own life.
Through two decades of training and deep personal unraveling, I discovered this about boundaries:
When you listen to your body, speak from your truth, and root into your inner guidance, you stop sacrificing yourself for love.
The result?
Your relationships finally begin to feel like home, you feel loved for being you and you trust yourself to show up authentically as you.
This is the essence of what I call Relationship Energetics.
It’s the work that helped me:
Heal an intergenerational mother/daughter pattern.
Consciously uncouple from a deeply loving partner.
Be surrounded by women I’m blessed to call sisters.
Weaving together over a decade of devotion as a Somatic Psychotherapist, Human Design Specialist and holding the frequency of Love, my work is devoted to one thing:
To help women like you remember your medicine and bring it back into your relationships.
Because when you heal your relationship patterns you don’t just change your life, you reweave your legacy lines and create a Lineage of Love.
“Through working with Juliana, I trust myself to make decisions that are right for me.
I am more tapped into my intuition, grounded in self and deeply at peace with who I am.”
Aleks K.
This is for the woman who…
△ Wants deeper, more honest relationships, but feels like she has to choose between love and being herself.
△ Finds herself replaying the same patterns over and over again, even though she’s read all the attachment style books.
△ Feels the weight of holding it all together for her family while resentment slowly poisons her relationships.
△ Longs to feel safe in her own body so she can trust herself to make her own decisions and stop outsourcing her wisdom to other people.
△ Knows something has to change something in her relationships but doesn’t know where to start.
"I am now thrilled by life.
I can see myself with adoring and compassionate curiosity and feel a deep alignment with my higher self.”
Angela A.
This is NOT for the woman who…
Wants a quick fix.
Babe, your relational patterns are generations deep. You’re not here to patch the surface, you’re here to break the cycle.
Wants to feel good all the time.
True healing takes you into the underworld. The woman who carries medicine knows: it often gets darker before the dawn.
Avoids responsibility.
Your childhood wasn’t your fault. But your adult patterns? That’s where your power lives. You reclaim your medicine the moment you own your part.
Your 3 Pathways to Reclaiming Your Medicine
1
Relationship Quiz:
What’s your
Relationship Archetype?
The Relationship Archetype Quiz is where you discover the survival pattern you’ve been playing out in your relationships, often without realizing it.
This free quiz reveals the energetic role you’ve been living in love, and the medicine you’re here to embody instead.
You’ll receive:
→ Free energetic diagnosis of your current pattern.
→ Video breakdown of what it means.
→ A personalized next step.
2
The Medicine Bundle:
Discover the energetics behind your relationships
The Relationship Energetics Medicine Bundle is practical, spiritual toolkit to shift your relationship patterns from the inside out.
The Bundle will guide you to reclaim the relational medicine your relationships need.
Inside, you’ll:
→ Learn nervous system + energetic tools
→ Shift how you show up in real time
→ Root into truth, safety, and self-trust
Get the special price for The Bundle only available through the quiz.
3
Sanctuary:
Six month
live group immersion
Sanctuary is a 6-month group program for women who want to rewrite their relationship story and restore self-trust.
It’s where you bring your real life, real relationships, and real patterns
and get the depth of support needed to finally transform them.
Over 6 months you’ll:
→ Heal emotional and energetic survival strategies.
→ Build a new way of relating that begins in your body.
→ Create a lineage of love for future generations.