Boundaries are the Real Foreplay to the Love You Actually Want
Join the Boundary Workshop - Devoted
You’ll discover:
The hidden reason boundaries feel scary to set and hard to hold and how to finally feel safe and steady in your “yes” and “no”.
The biggest mistake women make that will ruin intimacy, safety and connection and how truth becomes the foreplay that builds desire.
How to rewrite your love story by ending the martyr pattern so you stop abandoning yourself and start creating the kind of love that actually lasts.
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Without boundaries your relationships hurt…
You dry up.
You check out.
You think it’s connection, but it’s actually obligation.
You say “yes” when you mean “no”.
You swallow your truth to be more “lovable.”
You carry the emotional weight in every relationship.
And you’re exhausted…
This must stop, lovely.
I know you don’t want to build walls.
You want to be met.
Seen.
Chosen - for who you are.
You begin with boundaries.
Your boundaries teach people how to love you…
Not surface love.
Not people-pleasing love.
Not pretending-you’re-fine love.
Real, grounded, intimate love - built on self-respect and truth.
But first, you have to unravel the lies you were taught to believe.
The ones that spin round and round:
“If I speak my truth, he’ll pull away.”
“It’s easier if I just stay quiet.”
“If she’s upset, I have to fix it.”
And it’s not your fault. You didn’t come up with these beliefs.
They were handed to you - through culture, family, and every time you were rewarded for being a good girl.
None of these lies are true.
And you can change them.
“I used to have no concept of what I needed in a relationship.
Learning about boundaries with Juliana helped me stop getting resentful because I stoped pressuring myself.
Now I know how to talk things out in my relationships and I feel more secure with the people I love.”
~ Sarah Parr
Just imagine…
You wake up feeling rested because you’re no longer carrying the emotional weight of every relationship.
You stop taking on everyone’s emotions as your responsibility so that you can be present and playful with your kids.
You transform people pleasing patterns so that you can actually relax and have fun with your friends.
You stop reenacting your parents’ dynamics on autopilot so that your daughter grows up knowing love thrives on being real.
You embrace conflict instead of fearing it, so that the hard conversations become gateways to deeper connection.
“Through working with Juliana, I trust myself to make decisions that are right for me.
I am more tapped into my intuition, grounded in self and deeply at peace with who I am.”
~ Aleks K.
Hello love, I’m Juliana
For years, my relationships left me anxious, drained, and walking on eggshells.
Like many women, I confused care with control and love with self-abandonment. I said yes when I meant no, swallowed my truth, and helped everyone with their emotions except for myself.
It looked like love - but it was really a lack of boundaries.
Through two decades of deep study and personal unraveling, I discovered that boundaries aren’t walls - they’re bridges back to yourself.
When you listen to your body, speak your truth, and stay rooted in your own guidance, you stop sacrificing yourself for love and start creating relationships that feel like home.
I am devoted to help women like you, build boundaries that don’t push people away - but make space for the love that’s real.
This is for the woman who…
△ Wants deeper, more honest relationships, but feels like she has to choose between love and being herself.
△ Finds herself replaying the same patterns over and over again, even though she’s read all the attachment style books.
△ Feels the weight of holding it all together for her family while resentment slowly poisons her relationships.
△ Longs to feel safe in her own body so she can trust herself to make her own decisions and stop outsourcing her wisdom to other people.
△ Knows something has to change something in her relationships but doesn’t know where to start.
"I am now thrilled by life.
I can see myself with adoring and compassionate curiosity and feel a deep alignment with my higher self.”
~ Angela A.
This is NOT for the woman who…
Wants a quick fix.
Babe, your relational patterns are generations deep. You’re not here to patch the surface, you’re here to break the cycle.
Wants to feel good all the time.
True healing takes you into the underworld. The woman who carries medicine knows: it often gets darker before the dawn.
Avoids responsibility.
Your childhood wasn’t your fault. But your adult patterns? That’s where your power lives. You reclaim your medicine the moment you own your part.
Your 3 Pathways to the Love you actually want
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Boundary Workshop:
Join Devoted
Devoted is a free one-day workshop where you’ll learn how to set boundaries that don’t push love away — they deepen it.
You’ll discover that boundaries are the foundation of self-trust, intimacy, and emotional freedom.
You’ll receive:
→ A live 90-minute workshop + lifetime access to the recording
→ Practical tools to turn guilt into grounded truth
→ A new understanding of boundaries as devotion, not defence
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The Medicine Bundle:
Discover the energetics behind your relationships
The Relationship Energetics Medicine Bundle is practical, spiritual toolkit to shift your relationship patterns from the inside out.
The Bundle will guide you to reclaim the relational medicine your relationships need.
Inside, you’ll:
→ Learn nervous system + energetic tools
→ Shift how you show up in real time
→ Root into truth, safety, and self-trust
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Sanctuary:
Three month
live group immersion
Sanctuary is a 3-month group program for women who want to rewrite their relationship story and restore self-trust.
It’s where you bring your real life, real relationships, and real patterns
and get the depth of support needed to finally transform them.
Over 3 months you’ll:
→ Heal emotional and energetic survival strategies.
→ Build a new way of relating that begins in your body.
→ Create a lineage of love for future generations.