Boundaries are the Real Foreplay

to the Love You Actually Want

A free 3-day workshop for the woman
who’s done contorting herself to keep the peace
and is ready for truthful, intimate relationships.

Without Foreplay, Relationships Hurt

You dry up.
You check out.
You pretend it’s connection, but it’s actually obligation.

You say yes when you mean no.
You soften your truth to be more “lovable.”
You carry the emotional weight in every relationship while quietly abandoning yourself.

And you’re just praying for it to be over.

This must stop, babe.

I know you don’t want to build walls.
You don’t want to become “hard.”
You want to be met.
Seen.
Chosen for who you are.

Your boundaries are the key to the love you actually want.

Not surface love.
Not people-pleasing love.
Not pretending-you’re-fine love.

Real, grounded, intimate love - built on self-respect and truth.
But first, you have to unravel the lies you were taught to believe.

The ones that spin round and round:

“If I speak my truth, he’ll pull away.”
“It’s easier if I just stay quiet.”
“If she’s upset, it’s all my fault.”

And it’s not your fault. You didn’t come up with these beliefs.
They were handed to you - through culture, family, and every moment you were rewarded for abandoning yourself.

None of these lies are true.
But it’s up to you to change them.

Welcome to…

Devoted

a 3-day workshop to stop betraying yourself in love,
& start creating relationships that feel safe, honest, and deeply alive.

October 18, 22 & 25 @10am pst.

Day 1: From Self-Defence to Self-Devotion

Why boundaries aren’t about pushing people away - they’re how you love yourself in action.

  • A new understanding of boundaries as self-honouring, not self-protective so you stop waiting for permission and start standing with yourself.

  • The ability to recognize your body’s yes and no so you can stop second-guessing and feel grounded in your choices.

  • A self-devotion practice that becomes your foundation for connection so you can stay rooted in relationships without losing yourself.

Day 2: Truth is Foreplay

Before you can truly trust another, your truth prepares the space between you.
Foreplay isn’t just sexual - it’s relational. It’s how we tend to what’s between us with care, clarity, and courage.

  • The real reason unclear boundaries block intimacy so you can stop sabotaging closeness by staying vague

  • A new relationship to truth-telling as connection, not conflict so your honesty builds desire, not distance

  • Why pleasure requires boundaries so you can feel safe enough to fully enjoy what you deeply desire

Day 3: How to Rewrite the Rules of Love

When you honour your truth, you break a pattern your mother couldn’t and pass down a love your children can trust.
Your boundaries aren’t just for you - they rewrite what love means for your entire lineage.

  • Recognition that your boundaries ripple across your lineage - past and future - so you can take your place as a cycle-breaker with pride, not pressure.

  • Clarity on the relational patterns you're here to end so you stop repeating your history and start choosing your legacy.

  • A deeper sense of the legacy you're building through self-trust so your children, your partners, and your future self inherit something new

This is relationship alchemy — grounded in truth, devotion, and the body.
Each day builds on the last to shift how you relate to yourself, others, and love itself.

This isn’t about being more assertive.
This is about becoming the woman who stays with herself — no matter who walks away.

In 3 days you’ll experience breakthroughs like these:

Hey lovely, I’m Juliana

I used to say yes to everything even when my whole body screamed no.
I didn’t know what a boundary was. I just knew I felt resentful, exhausted, and totally alone.
Eventually, I started cutting people out just to survive.

Everything changed when I realized boundaries weren’t about pushing people away - they were about coming home to myself.
They became the doorway to pleasure, intimacy, and the deep, honest relationships I’d always wanted.

I’m Juliana - a somatic transpersonal therapist by trade, lineage healer, and relationship alchemist.
I help women stop abandoning themselves in love, and start creating the kind of relationships they dream of.

That’s the shift I’ll guide you into inside Devoted.